A was in town and initiated for a catch up. We finally fixed on a date cos GY had a really tight schedule and so i postponed the date i made with a friend since it's not everyday that A's in town and rarer still that he initiated to catch up. So we had a gathering, just the three of us. And i was glad we made the effort to meet. For the evening turned out to be fun, and we chatted and joked and jabbed like the good old days... those days when the three of us would hang out together. And of course we took the opportunity to catch up with what's going on in one another's life.
While driving to our dinner venue, A revealed that he had not kept in touch as his wife felt really sensitive about me cos she knew that he used to go after me. I told him i thought he didn't want to be my friend anymore. Actually, i had been rather disappointed with him when he just simply avoided us after he got attached to his girlfriend(now wife). And i wasn't the only one who felt it. He explained that it was simply stressful trying to rationalize with his gf then. Hence, he took the easiest way out which was to avoid me.
Anyway, i'm glad he cleared this. It's nice to catch up with old friends who had been part of a certain phase in your life. And it's nice to know that we can still chat and joked like the old times.