Sunday, December 23, 2007

Fish Therapy

Went to check out the fish therapy treatment at novena ville with my friend. It's supposed to be a skin exfoliating treatment by doctor fish and helps reduce skin illness like eczema, psoriasis and dermatitis.


We went more for the novelty of the treatment and tried both the hand and foot treatments. Anyway, it was quite fun( the foot treatment) and we sure had a lot of laughters cos it can be rather ticklish at times and we couldn't help squeezing each other and laughing out loud. When we left, we were laughing at another lady who was squeaking at the ticklish sensation from the Dr fish micro massages.


Here's the link the the website. http://www.kampongfishtherapy.com/#


And some pictures.


Me..

See all the fishes...

Saturday, December 22, 2007

Christmas Wish for a Friend


A friend flew back to China few days ago. Back to reality as she termed it. She's currently based there and all isn't so rosy where everyday is a new battle for her. My heart really goes out to her and i truly wish she'll be happy and be able to face all the challenges that awaits her. Hey gal, this is my christmas wish for you.

My wish for you this Christmas,
is that you will always find courage in you
during moments of adversity.
To have the courage
to keep going when the going gets tough.
The quiet voice at the end of the day,
saying " i will try again tomorrow".
The courage to stand up for yourself,
the courage to be afraid but try anyway,
the courage to always keep your integrity intact.
The courage
to cry, give yourself a pat, and just move on.
The courage to trust yourself to test your limits,
the courage to listen to your heart,
and the courage and faith,
to know that it's only a matter of time,
that you will achieve anything that you set out to do.

Lots and lots and lots of love!!!

Jean

Wednesday, November 14, 2007

The Millionaire Mind Intensive by T. Harv Eker




Was looking forward to attend The Millionaire Mind Intensive seminar on 23rd Nov - 25thNov.

Unfortunately, the gala dinner where our company is one of the award's proud recipient falls on the 23rd itself. It is an important event and i need to be present...Hence, i have to let go of the ticket...

The seminar will cover the following:

1. The wealth creation & maintenance strategies of the rich
2. How to quadruple your speed to financial freedom
3. The 5 key financial habits of the wealthy
4. The underlying cause of almost all financial problems
5. 12 ways to earn passive income so you can make money while you sleep

Here's some link to more details regarding the seminar.

http://www.millionairemindsingapore.com/

http://www.truveo.com/T-Harv-Eker-Secrets-Of-The-Millionaire-Mind/id/2345570766

If anyone is interested in buying the ticket, please let me know.

Saturday, August 11, 2007















June 7, 2007

Harvard Commencement Address

by William H. Gates III

http://www.harvardmagazine.com/2007/commencement/gates.html


A friend forwarded me the commencement speech (see link above) by Bill Gates atHarvard.The speech blew me away and i just gotta share it in this blog.


It was an appeal for humanity. About the awful inequities in the world -- the "appalling disparities of health, and wealth, and opportunity that condemn millions of people to lives of despair.." and how the millions of dying children and their parents have no power to save their lifes but privileged people like Harvard graduates could.


He spoke about how the barrier to change is not too little caring; but too much complexity to turn caring into action. And he offered his solutions to action before throwing some thought provoking questions on humanity which sets you pondering even if you are not the intended audience.


"Should our best minds be more dedicated to solving our biggest problems?"


"Should the world's most privileged learn about the lives of the world's least privileged?"


"Should Harvard students know about the depth of global poverty ... the prevalence of world hunger ... the scarcity of clean water ...the girls kept out of school ... the children who die from diseases we can cure? "


Even for a local graduate like myself, i think we are in so many many ways privileged and have the power to do so much more for the lesser in our society and around the world. And when you think of the millions of people just trying to stay alive, you realised how fortunate you are, to have the health and the brain, which provides you unlimited potential to pursue the many possibilities in life.

And i wonder how many of our youths and peers knew about the lives of the world's least privileged or are keen to know. Or realised how minute our problems are, when compared to these people whose dreams could be just staying alive for one more day. I am aware but do not know much myself too, but i will make an effort, by doing the first step. And that's to first really learn and see and feel the problem.


Bill Gates mentioned a message from her mom in one letter she wrote: "From those to whom much is given, much is expected." Simple words but so wise isn't it? This would be the kind of values i think our society should believe in. Responsibility, Compassion, Protection for the weaker...


He used the message to encourage the graduates to do more, to take on an issue, to not let complexity stops them, to be activists, to take on big inequities.

And he ends off by throwing an challenge, a hope, that "..you will come back here to Harvard 30 years from now and reflect on what you have done with your talent and your energy. I hope you will judge yourselves not on your professional accomplishments alone, but also on how well you have addressed the world's deepest inequities ... on how well you treated people a world away who have nothing in common with you but their humanity. "

It was a great inspiring speech. Go check this out.


"http://www.harvardmagazine.com/2007/commencement/gates.html

National Day Eve and Catching up with Uni Frens


Had planned to chill out with Lilian for a drink at ponggol park near my place after my yoga. I'll bring my wine and she'll bring some tibits and we can have a nice catch up by the pond. Audrey called after class to see if i had any plans too and so we arranged to all meet up together. We managed to get Boon Poh and HowKiat who stays nearby to join us too.

The five of us are part of a bigger group of friends in MPE who used to hang out together during our NTU days. After graduation, efforts were still made to catch up regularly. But gradually, everyone just got busy by the demand of work and other more important things in life that gatherings involving everyone now takes place only during important events like weddings, baby showers, house warmings..

I still keep in touch with Lilian and Audrey pretty regularly though. Lilian was not only my course mate but was also my neighbour in Hall 6 and hall 5. And we broke off with our exes right about the same time. And so, we shared alot and have lotsa spare time to hang out together.

Audrey broke off with hers around the same time too. So i guess, the 3 of us gals found much sympathy in one another and have the bandwidth to keep in regular contacts. Audrey joined me in my last company for a while too. We were each other buddy at work for a short while before we both quitted one after another. 

Anyway, it was nice catching up in a group and not the usual one to one outing. We just relaxed at the pavilion by the pond, tasting wine, munching tibits, trading stories, joking and chitchatting till 2 plus in the morning. It would be cool if the rest were there too. But one can't be too greedy huh. It's lucky we happen to be free tonight.

Our lives are moving on so fast and there is no slowing it down...

Cheers to all my friends!


Au Petit Salut French Restaurant

Had a fabulous dinner at Au Petit Salut yesterday. Excellent food, great ambience and affordable price for a nice french dinner. I'll definitely come back again.


http://www.aupetitsalut.com/

Tuesday, August 7, 2007

The Dear Little Princess from Camp Rainbow


The little princess i befriended at the volunteer camp sms me last night.


Princess: Are you sleeping now
Me: Nope. I'm driving. On the way home from yoga.
Princess: OH
Me: Why aren't you sleeping yet? It's late
Princess: I miss you what! rabbit.


Her reply brought a huge smile to my face. :) It's nice to know that you must have meant something and had made a difference one way or another in someone's life for them to miss you.

It was 3 full days of interactions and fun we had. She was a really shy girl at the start of the camp. Yet over the course of the camp, we had so much fun that she opened up very quickly to reveal another lovely side of her. She was like the princess in our group, for she was the youngest. And all the other befrienders doted on her a lot too. After the camp, we had a few more get together sessions. Her dad remarked that she had changed alot since returning the camp, much more outgoing and confident and kept thanking me that night when i sent her home after the appreciation tea. The camp had made a positive impact on her.

Actually, the camp was a learning experience for myself too.

One snippet in my journal recorded a moment when she seemed to prefer the company of the doctor assigned to our group than me.

"...For a short moment, I turn away from her, for I couldn’t handle rejection. Why does she seem to prefer the doctor’s company more than mine? Sometimes, we have such big ego and pride, that the tiniest little act of injustice(we felt) done to us causes us silly hurts that we shut off from people.


I guess she could sense it. For she sorta shy away from me when I started playing with the other kids and did not follow her everywhere so much. And so she turned to the other befrienders, and me to the other kids whom seemed to appreciate and love my company. And suddenly there existed a wall between us. And I suddenly sensed that she was a little shy with me.


Then I quickly thought to myself, what’s really important is that she enjoys herself and I need to manage my own feelings better. And so, we begin to have fun again. :) "



After the camp, little princess smsed me "I love you.". Her sms made my day that night. When you give love, they will find a way back.


Life is too short to be little. When we rise above petty hurts and pride, and embrace them with love and understanding and compassion, the world becomes a much better world, for ourselves and the people around us.